Thursday, June 26, 2008

Robert Earl Chambers

On June 4th 2008 Grandpa passed away after 85 years of being on this earth. He died with his wife next to him and his kids surrounding him telling him how much they love and care about him. As I look back at his life and see all the people he affected I can only hope that my life will be as meaningful as his. He was a sweet and genuine man that taught me allot about life without words but by his actions. 60 years of marriage, 5 kids and a crazy amount of grandkids and even more great grandkids. He was opinionated and wasn't afraid to tell you what he thought. One of our last conversations he was trying to give me his paperwork to become a registered republican. And insisted that someday I would get smart and throw my liberal views away. I loved having that argument with him. Grandpa was always humming a tune and right up to the last days he was with us he was singing to the people he loves. There are a few of us Chambers that forever have a song in our heads and we got it from him. My Grandparents held hands all the time and finished each others sentences. They complimented each other just by being a couple.

I will miss him and think about him with every tune I hum in my head.






Uncle Rob's Eulogy
Sorry if I seem a bit nervous... I read once that according to most studies, people’s number one fear is public speaking. Number two fear is death. Death is number two. Does that sound right? That means that if you go to a funeral, you would rather be in the casket than doing the eulogy… But there is no doubt in my mind that Dad is in a better place now. After the past several weeks I firmly believe that now, and so in knowing that, I am able carry on. When I was younger I was kinda trying to learn about life in a hurry, and so Dad and I did have our differences. He did well in keeping me from going to far. You may have heard the story of the 16 year old who thought that his Father didn’t know much of anything, and then when the son became 20, he couldn’t believe how much his Dad learned in four years. And then as Dad got older, and I got to know him more and more, and I really enjoyed our times together. Dad had his strong opinions on sports, on politics, on cars, on religion, well on most things, and both of us would love to argue about some of these issues – sometimes strongly, sometimes with Mom sitting by worrying about Dad’s blood pressure as he got heated. But I knew he loved these arguments and so did I. I think we would both walk away from these discussions with some new knowledge. I know that it got me more interested in these subjects. Those that knew him well would see that he was always humming, whistling or singing a tune. And his laugh! So infectious! But I always had a way of getting him to laugh even louder by imitating his laugh and it would sometimes become hysterical and crack us all up. Dad was a game player all of his life. A lot of my best memories are from these games – from family games early on like checkers, card games, charades, to the softball games with my brothers and friends, to playing pool and golf. Dad and I would play golf every week when he spent the winters in Florida. Right up until this past December he was still enjoying the game and still playing a pretty good game. I think that Dad lived in the best of times. A fairly simple man, a happy man, who loved his family and friends, and taught us about love and happiness.

Uncle Jeff's Eulogy:
My dad led a simple life - yet he was not necessarily a simple man: He had some strong opinions and loved to debate (especially about sports & politics). He had a great sense of humor and loved to laugh. He had a great attitude about life, and loved to whistle and hum (even while he worked). Although the last 41 days of his life were tough, we need to keep in mind that he lived a full life: Born in Berkley in 1922, he lived through the Great Depression, WWII, the Korean & Vietnam wars, and he put up with the Hippies and Disco. And yes, he even put up with me (I was the worse of five). The 90’s were good to him and he continued to hit the ball straight down the fairway as he made his way into the 21st Century. He lived 31, 281 days and he was married to his sweetheart for 22,166 days. He was a great dad, who yelled from the bottom of the steps to wake us up every Sunday for church. In doing so, he provided a great foundation for us; Christian principles and belief in Jesus Christ. He never had a lot of money, but his life lesson was more about living in the moment and enjoying the people that surrounded him… His wife of 60 years, 5 children, 14 grandchildren, 20 great grandchildren, and his friends & family will miss him dearly.

Jake’s Eulogy:
My Grandpa was a loving and caring grandfather, and he never gave up for what he believed in. He was the one who started this whole family, that’s why we love him dearly and very much. He was always a happy man – he was never mad. He always said “hi” to me. I will never forget those “hi’s”. Now he’s up in heaven where we love and miss him.


http://www.sawyerfuller.com/obituaries.htm

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

sucker for b&w

My father in law Tom came to Tristens soccer game and took some awesome pictures. I'm such a sucker for black and white and these pictures all say something about this family.


To me this one of Thomas and Tanner is my daily vision of them both. Tanner is glued to Thomas and hanging on him like the little monkey he is. He is trying to destroy Thomas sunglasses and he has that look like he is trying to figure out what to get into next without getting caught.

Thomas is watching Tristen, holding Tanner, trying not to let Tanner destroy his sunglasses but to let him play with them long enough to keep him busy so he can actually WATCH Tristen play. He wants to yell for Tristen and help coach but he has a monkey attached to him. And he is wondering if I will care if he goes golfing after this.

This is my sweaty boy that doesn't really have time to stop and take a picture so he is gonna give you that fake smile to get you off his back. Right now he is thinking I wonder who brought the snack and I hope we get a juice box instead of the water like Mom brought last week. ohh and can I go play at the playground when this is done?! and I wonder since I scored a goal if Dad will take me to Family Video so I can get a game for my wii.



Yup, its me. 9 months preggo, and glad Tanner isn't attached to my hip at this very moment. I'm biting the side of my lip watching how good Tristen is at playing soccer with my camera in hand waiting to snap a perfect moment. I'm thinking ohh my god my feet are SO swollen, I wish I had a that water I brought last week and I hope Thomas doesn't want to golf after this cuz I need a nap.

Thursday, June 19, 2008

proud momma

Mom you are the proud owner of a first grader.
This is the first thing Tristen said to me when I picked him up on the last day of K-garden. He is very attached to his teacher and I think its bitter sweet for him to leave her. He still wants to name the baby Prout, after Miss. Prout and said her nick name can be Prouty. She really has done an amazing job and he respects her so much. What Miss Prout says, goes. She really took him by the hand and taught him so much.

Miss Gina was another favorite of ours, she is the assistant that calls Tristen shorty.
We are really gonna miss both of them next year.



This is his buddy Zach that he hangs with. so cute

He had his hip hop recital, so awesome and I think Thomas and I were the loudest in that auditorium. He did great and its the strangest thing to watch your baby on stage in front of 400 people. He didnt need us to tell him what to do or how to do it. He was this little man up there on his own making his mark without us. And when he met us after the show he was beaming and so proud of what he just did. And also had the two proudest parents adoring his every move.

Thursday, June 12, 2008